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Stop Comparing Yourself
The biggest enemy
There is nothing good about comparing yourself to other people.
Comparing yourself to other people (who have got more) only makes you demotivated and discouraged from what you’re doing. And it’s also kinda unfair to compare yourself to people who have got more success than you. Because let’s be honest, you can’t compare someone's 3 years of consistent grinding to your 3 months of lazy work.
Even if you have started the journey at the same time, and if they’ve got more than you, this clearly shows that they’ve done something you didn’t. So obviously they deserved it because they’ve worked hard for it.
You easily compare yourself to other people’s success, but what you fail to see and realize is that it’s not their overnight success or quick rich scheme, and it’s not that they found something through luck. None of that bullshit.
They’ve got what they have, because of their hard work and patience.
Instead of comparing yourself to those people, you should analyze and think about — what they did, how they did it, and how long did it take to get that “Thing”. This will instantly make you more successful because now you’ll have all the things you need to get the thing that they have, that you’re wanting right now.
As they say: “Don’t compare, collaborate.” This is so true because comparison only gives you bad feelings, but collaboration allows you to learn from those people and grow together. Of course, easier said than done, but awareness is so powerful, you know.
Stop comparing yourself to other people.